About Lighthouse Parent

We Help Overcommitted Parents Break the Burnout Cycle

At Lighthouse Parent, we believe parenting shouldn't feel like you're drowning. Yet millions of parents are stuck in cycles of overcommitment, burning out while trying to be everything to everyone.

We exist to change that.

The Problem We Solve

Most parenting advice treats all overwhelmed parents the same—offering generic time management tips and one-size-fits-all solutions. But after working with hundreds of families, we've discovered something crucial:

Overcommitted parents aren't randomly overwhelmed. They each have specific patterns that keep them trapped in burnout.

Some parents (we call them Jugglers) take on everything because they can't bear to let anything drop. Others (the Helpers) say yes to everyone because they're afraid of disappointing people. The Optimizers keep searching for the perfect system, while the Rocks carry everyone else's problems because they believe that's what strength means.

Until you understand YOUR specific overcommitment style, every solution will fail.

Our Approach

Style-Specific Solutions

Instead of generic advice, we provide targeted strategies based on your unique overcommitment pattern.

Elimination Over Optimization

We don't help you manage more efficiently—we help you choose what deserves your energy in the first place.

Community Over Isolation

We believe children thrive when raised by connected communities, not exhausted parents trying to do everything alone.

Sustainable Transformation

We focus on long-term changes that work with your natural tendencies instead of fighting against them.

Meet Your Guide

Rein, Founder of Lighthouse Parent

I created Lighthouse Parent because I lived the overcommitted parent struggle firsthand. As a mom of five with a demanding career, I spent years trying to be the perfect parent, perfect employee, and perfect wife—until my body literally couldn't keep up anymore.

My background as a business analyst taught me to see patterns and systems. When I applied that lens to my own overwhelm, I discovered it wasn't random chaos—it followed a very specific pattern. More importantly, when I started working with other struggling parents, I realized we all had different patterns that required different solutions.

That insight became the foundation of our 4 Overcommitment Styles framework, which has now helped thousands of parents understand why they burn out and how to break the cycle.

I'm not here to help you do more—I'm here to help you choose better.

Our Services

The Overcommitment Style Quiz

Discover your specific overwhelm pattern and get personalized strategies that actually work for your unique situation.

The Overcommitted Parent Detox Program

A comprehensive system to eliminate energy-draining commitments and create sustainable family rhythms.

1-on-1 Parent Guidance

Personalized mentoring to help you navigate your specific overcommitment challenges and build the family life you actually want.

What Makes Us Different

We've been where you are

Our strategies come from real experience, not theory. Every recommendation has been tested in the chaos of actual family life.

We treat you as unique

Your overwhelm pattern is specific to you, and your solutions should be too. We don't believe in cookie-cutter approaches.

We focus on what matters

Instead of helping you manage everything better, we help you identify what deserves your precious time and energy—and what doesn't.

We build community

Parenting was never meant to be a solo journey. We help you create the connected, supportive relationships your family needs to thrive.

Our Vision

We envision a world where:

Parents make decisions from clarity instead of chaos

Children grow up in connected communities that support their development

Families thrive because they've eliminated what drains them and amplified what energizes them

Asking for help is seen as wisdom, not weakness

Ready to Break Your Burnout Cycle?

Thousands of parents have already discovered their Overcommitment Style and transformed how they show up for their families.

Your sustainable, connected family life is possible. Let us show you how.

Lighthouse Parent is a division of Nyla. When you join our community, you'll receive valuable insights and resources from our team to support your parenting journey.